I released an audiobook that teaches the most complete oral sex technique for men.
Not a romance novel. Not some “spice up your marriage” fluff piece.
An actual technique training system that teaches married men how to make their wives orgasm from oral sex.
Every. Single. Time.
And I’m getting messages like this:
“14 years of marriage. First oral sex orgasm ever. Thank you.”
“My wife is initiating now. She REQUESTS it. I didn’t think that was possible.”
“I feel like a completely different husband.”
Here’s why this oral sex audiobook matters—and why it might be exactly what your marriage needs right now.
Way #1: You’ll Finally Know Where the Clitoris Actually Is (And What to Do With It)
Let me be blunt.
You have no idea where the clitoris actually is.
I don’t mean the general vicinity.
I mean you couldn’t confidently locate:
- The glans (the visible part)
- The hood (the covering)
- The clitoral legs (the internal structure extending 3-4 inches inside her body)
- The clitoral bulbs (the erectile tissue surrounding her vaginal opening)
And that’s not your fault.
Nobody ever taught you.
Sex ed showed you a diagram that looked nothing like reality.
Porn taught you to focus on penetration.
Your wife won’t explain it because she’s embarrassed and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
So you’ve been fumbling in the dark for years.
This is exactly why I created the Her Next Orgasm audiobook.
Module 1 gives you complete anatomical mastery.
Not just “it’s a button” vague nonsense.
But the actual structure:
- Where the 8,000 nerve endings are concentrated
- How the internal clitoral structure responds to different pressures
- Why indirect stimulation works better than direct (until a certain arousal stage)
- How blood flow changes the anatomy as she becomes aroused
Once you understand WHAT you’re stimulating, the HOW becomes obvious.
John told me:
“I’ve been married 14 years and I just learned the clitoris has internal legs. LEGS. Nobody ever told me that. Understanding the anatomy changed everything. I finally know what I’m actually doing.”
This is the foundation of the entire oral sex technique for men system.
You can’t master a skill if you don’t understand the instrument.
Way #2: Your Jaw Won’t Get Tired Anymore (Because You’ll Use the Right Technique)
Here’s what’s happening right now:
Your jaw aches after 5 minutes.
Your neck cramps.
Your tongue goes numb.
You think: “I must have weak jaw muscles. Maybe I’m just not cut out for this.”
Wrong.
You’re using the wrong tongue position.
Most men use a pointed tongue—like a tiny penis—making rapid flicking motions on her clitoris.
This technique:
- Exhausts your jaw in 3-5 minutes
- Provides inconsistent stimulation
- Feels like poking to her (not pleasure)
- Makes 20-minute sessions impossible
The correct technique? Flat tongue.
Imagine licking an ice cream cone.
Broad, full surface contact.
Slow, consistent strokes at 60 BPM (one lick per second).
This technique:
- Uses 70% less jaw muscle
- Creates 300% more surface stimulation
- Feels smooth and pleasurable to her
- Is sustainable for 20+ minutes easily
David K. emailed me after week one:
“I couldn’t believe the difference. The flat tongue position completely changed my stamina. I used to tap out at 8 minutes. Now I can go 25 minutes without strain. And SHE’S responding totally differently.”
This is taught in detail in Module 2 of the oral sex audiobook.
The exact tongue positions.
When to use flat vs. pointed.
How to maintain consistent pressure.
How to build jaw and tongue endurance.
Because technique beats effort every time.
Way #3: You’ll Stop Changing Your Rhythm Right When She’s About to Orgasm
This is the #1 mistake.
The one that’s been sabotaging you for years.
And you have no idea you’re making it.
Here’s the pattern:
You’re going down on her.
You’ve been maintaining a consistent rhythm for 10-12 minutes.
Suddenly her moaning gets louder.
Her hips start moving more.
Her breathing accelerates.
And your brain says: “YES! She’s getting close! Time to ESCALATE!”
So you:
- Speed up your licking
- Increase the pressure
- Change to a different tongue pattern
- Add more finger stimulation
And you just reset her arousal from 85% back to 60%.
She was climbing toward orgasm.
You knocked her back down the mountain.
Here’s the golden rule from the audiobook:
When she moans = DON’T CHANGE ANYTHING.
Not your rhythm.
Not your pressure.
Not your pattern.
Not your hand position.
NOTHING.
Lock in what’s working and maintain it until she comes.
James M. said this single principle changed his marriage:
“I was that guy. The moment she started responding, I’d switch things up trying to ‘give her more.’ Now I understand I was killing her momentum. Once I learned to LOCK IN and maintain, she came for the first time in our 12-year marriage.”
This is counterintuitive.
Everything in you wants to escalate when she responds.
But consistency creates orgasms. Variety kills them.
Module 3 of the oral sex audiobook breaks down:
- Why rhythm consistency matters neurologically
- How to maintain the exact same pattern for 5-10 minutes straight
- What to do if you accidentally break rhythm
- How to train yourself to resist the urge to change
This one lesson is worth the entire audiobook price.
Way #4: She’ll Actually WANT Oral Sex (Instead of Avoiding It)
Let me ask you something painful:
What would you do if you couldn’t orgasm for a year?
Think about it.
Every time you had sex:
- You’d get 60-70% aroused
- It would feel good for a few minutes
- Then it would become frustrating
- You’d never reach completion
- You’d finish yourself off alone later
Would you still want sex after 6 months of that?
Or would you start:
- Making excuses (“I’m tired”)
- Avoiding initiation
- Redirecting to something else
- Feeling disconnected and guilty
Your desire would fade. Guaranteed.
This is your wife’s reality right now.
She doesn’t have “low libido.”
She has logical avoidance of sex that doesn’t lead to orgasm.
When oral sex is:
- Random licking with no technique
- Inconsistent rhythm that never builds
- Only 5-10 minutes (when she needs 20)
- Ending without her orgasm
Her body learns: “This doesn’t lead anywhere good.”
So she avoids it.
Not because she’s not a sexual person.
But because why would she want something that consistently disappoints?
Here’s what changes when you master the oral sex technique for men:
Kevin L. experienced this transformation:
“My wife went from making excuses to REQUESTING oral sex. Not ‘okay if you want to’—but actually asking for it. Because now she knows I know what I’m doing. And she knows she’ll orgasm.”
When she knows oral sex = her orgasm, she wants it.
When she wants it, she initiates.
When she initiates, your entire bedroom dynamic transforms.
This is in Module 4 of the audiobook:
- Why women avoid sex that doesn’t satisfy them
- How to rebuild her trust in your ability
- What changes in her behavior when you master technique
- The psychological shift from “avoiding” to “desiring”
Fix your technique. Watch her interest skyrocket.
Way #5: You’ll Know Exactly What to Do at Minute 3 vs. Minute 15 (The 20-Minute System)
Right now, you’re flying blind.
You don’t know:
- How long oral sex should actually take (20 minutes minimum)
- What you’re supposed to be doing at minute 5 vs. minute 15
- When to go direct vs. indirect on her clitoris
- When to add fingers (and how)
- How to tell if you’re making progress
So you’re just… winging it.
Hoping something accidentally works.
The Her Next Orgasm audiobook gives you the complete 20-minute system.
Here’s the exact progression:
MINUTES 0-3: THE APPROACH
- What you’re doing: Kissing her body, touching everywhere except genitals
- What she’s experiencing: Mental arousal building, blood flow starting
- Your goal: Get her MIND turned on before touching her body
MINUTES 3-5: THE FIRST KISS
- What you’re doing: Broad, soft licks across entire vulva
- What she’s experiencing: Physical arousal beginning, tissue engorging
- Critical rule: NO direct clitoral contact yet
MINUTES 5-8: THE CLITORAL TEASE
- What you’re doing: Licking AROUND (not on) the clitoris
- What she’s experiencing: Desperation building, wanting more
- The secret: Anticipation before direct contact
MINUTES 8-12: THE CLIT CONNECTION
- What you’re doing: Testing three patterns (vertical, horizontal, circular)
- What she’s experiencing: Arousal climbing from 60% to 75%
- Your mission: Find which pattern SHE prefers (not what you think)
MINUTES 12-18: THE RHYTHM LOCK
- What you’re doing: ONE winning pattern at 60 BPM
- What she’s experiencing: Arousal building from 75% to 95%
- CRITICAL: Do NOT change when she moans
MINUTES 18-20+: THE ORGASM
- What you’re doing: Exact same rhythm until she comes
- What she’s experiencing: 95% → 100% → ORGASM
- After: Immediately go gentle (hypersensitivity)
This is the system.
Not guessing.
Not hoping.
Not “every woman is different” vagueness.
But an actual minute-by-minute progression from 0 to orgasm.
Module 3 walks through this entire timeline in detail.
With explanations of:
- WHY each stage matters
- WHAT she’s experiencing physiologically
- HOW to know you’re on track
- WHAT to do if something goes wrong
Mark said:
“Having the timeline changed everything. I used to quit at 10 minutes thinking I’d been going ‘forever.’ Now I understand 10 minutes is only HALFWAY. Once I committed to the full 20 minutes, my wife came for the first time ever.”
This is the roadmap you’ve been missing.
What Makes This Oral Sex Audiobook Different From Everything Else
You’ve probably seen other oral sex resources.
Articles. Videos. Courses.
Here’s why this one is different:
1. IT’S FROM A WOMAN
I’m not a “sex expert” dude telling you what HE thinks works.
I’m a woman explaining what women actually want (and can’t articulate to you).
2. IT’S SPECIFIC (NOT VAGUE)
Not “communicate more” or “pay attention to her.”
But: “Use a flat tongue at 60 BPM for 12-18 minutes maintaining consistent pressure.”
ACTUAL TECHNIQUE.
3. IT’S AN AUDIOBOOK (NOT A BOOK YOU WON’T READ)
You can listen while:
- Driving to work
- Working out
- Doing chores
No awkward reading. No time commitment. Just education that fits your life.
4. IT’S A COMPLETE SYSTEM (NOT RANDOM TIPS)
- The anatomy (what you’re stimulating)
- The technique (how to stimulate it)
- The progression (0 to orgasm timeline)
- The mistakes (what kills orgasms)
- The practice system (building skills)
- The troubleshooting (when things go wrong)
Everything in one place.
5. IT REMOVES SHAME
I don’t assume you’re a bad husband or a lazy lover.
I assume you were never taught—because you weren’t.
This is the education you should have gotten 20 years ago.
What’s Actually Inside the Her Next Orgasm Audiobook
THE COMPLETE SYSTEM (6+ Hours of Audio Training)
MODULE 1: THE FOUNDATION (42 minutes)
- Complete female anatomy (the parts you can’t see)
- Why 81% of women orgasm from oral sex (when done right)
- The 20-minute rule (biology, not preference)
- The internal clitoral structure (18 parts total)
MODULE 2: THE TECHNIQUE (1 hour 18 minutes)
- The Tongue Stroke Library (22 proven patterns)
- Flat tongue vs. pointed tongue (when to use each)
- The 60 BPM rhythm rule (why this exact speed)
- Hand coordination system (what to do with fingers)
- The “come hither” motion (targeting G-spot)
- Tongue positions for stamina
MODULE 3: THE 20-MINUTE SYSTEM (1 hour 5 minutes)
- The complete minute-by-minute timeline
- Stage 1-6 (from first touch to orgasm)
- The clitoral tease phase (building anticipation)
- The rhythm lock (when consistency matters most)
- Reading her body signals (real vs. fake)
- When to add penetration
MODULE 4: THE DEADLY MISTAKES (38 minutes)
- The 6 mistakes that kill her orgasm
- Why changing rhythm destroys momentum
- How giving up too soon sabotages everything
- The “alphabet technique” myth (why it fails)
- What to do if you mess up mid-session
- Recovery techniques
MODULE 5: THE PRACTICE SYSTEM (47 minutes)
- Daily tongue strengthening exercises
- Stamina training for 20-minute sessions
- Rhythm training with metronome
- Building jaw endurance (without pain)
- Coordination drills (tongue + fingers)
- Solo practice techniques
MODULE 6: TROUBLESHOOTING & Q&A (52 minutes)
- “What if she pushes me away?”
- “What if she says it’s too sensitive?”
- “What if she still doesn’t orgasm after 20 minutes?”
- Real questions from the community
- Advanced techniques for specific challenges
- When to try different approaches
Real Transformations From Real Husbands
Mark F. (Married 14 years):
“I’d never made my wife orgasm from oral sex in 14 years of marriage. Not once. I felt like a complete failure. The Her Next Orgasm audiobook taught me the 20-minute system and the ‘don’t change rhythm’ rule. Three weeks later, my wife had her first oral sex orgasm ever. I actually cried. This saved my marriage.”
Tom T. (Married 9 years):
“My wife was avoiding oral sex completely. She’d redirect me after 5 minutes. I thought she just didn’t like it. Turns out I was terrible at it. Once I learned the flat tongue technique and the proper rhythm, everything changed. Now she REQUESTS it. That’s not something I ever thought I’d experience.”
James M. (Married 12 years):
“I thought I was just naturally bad at this. The audiobook showed me I wasn’t bad—I was untrained. The difference between those two things is huge. Learning the actual technique gave me confidence for the first time ever. My wife finally had an orgasm last week. First time in our entire marriage.”
Kevin L. (Married 7 years):
“I blamed my wife’s ‘low libido’ for our dead bedroom. This audiobook made me realize: she doesn’t have low libido. She has low interest in bad sex. Once I fixed my technique, her interest skyrocketed. We went from sex once a month to 3-4 times a week. All because I learned how to make her orgasm.”
Why Listen to Me About This?
Fair question.
Why should you trust me to teach you oral sex technique for men?
Because I was a “cold wife.”
Low libido. Sexually unavailable. The wife who said “I’m tired” so many times my husband stopped asking.
And I destroyed my marriage because of it.
Not because my ex-husband was a bad man.
Not because I didn’t love him.
But because:
- I was trapped in shame about my sexuality
- I couldn’t articulate what I needed (because I didn’t know)
- He didn’t know the technique (because nobody taught him)
- We suffered in silence (because admitting ignorance felt humiliating)
And eventually, our marriage ended.
After my divorce, I became obsessed with understanding:
- Why don’t women orgasm from oral sex?
- What techniques actually work?
- How can I teach men without shaming them?
I spent years studying:
- Female anatomy and arousal research
- What actually creates orgasms (not theory—practice)
- How to communicate technique in a way men can learn
And I created this system.
Not from books or research alone.
But from lived experience—both as the wife who couldn’t come and as the educator who now knows why.
I can’t save my own marriage.
But maybe I can help you save yours.
That’s why I do this.
The Investment: Less Than a Tank of Gas
REGULAR PRICE: $27
That’s it.
Less than:
- Two drinks at a bar ($35)
- A tank of gas ($45)
- One marriage counseling session ($150)
- A decent date night ($80)
But the impact?
- Your wife experiencing consistent orgasms for the first time
- Your bedroom transforming from dead to passionate
- Your anxiety replaced with confidence
- Your marriage rebuilding the intimacy you both desperately want
What’s that worth to you?
The 30-Day “Her Next Orgasm” Guarantee
Here’s my promise:
Listen to the oral sex audiobook.
Follow the system for 30 days.
Practice the techniques.
If you don’t:
- Feel dramatically more confident during oral sex
- See your wife responding completely differently
- Give her at least ONE orgasm you KNOW is real
Email me for a full refund. No questions. No hassle.
You have 30 full days to decide if this oral sex technique training works for you.
All the risk is on me.
Why am I so confident?
Because this system works.
Not for 100% of couples (nothing does).
But for the vast majority of men who:
- Follow the system exactly
- Commit to the 20-minute timeline
- Practice the techniques consistently
The results speak for themselves.
What Happens If You Don’t Get This Audiobook?
Let me be honest about where your marriage is headed.
If nothing changes:
Year 1 from now:
- She’ll be even less interested in sex
- You’ll feel even more rejected and incompetent
- The distance between you will grow wider
- Resentment will build on both sides
Year 3 from now:
- Dead bedroom is now “normal”
- You’ve stopped trying
- She feels guilty but doesn’t know how to fix it
- You’re more roommates than spouses
Year 5 from now:
- Affairs become tempting (for one or both)
- Divorce starts feeling inevitable
- You wonder how you ended up here
This is the pattern I see over and over.
Not because couples don’t love each other.
But because sexual satisfaction is foundational to intimate connection.
And when it’s missing?
Everything else slowly crumbles.
You can stop this cycle today.
With the right oral sex technique for men.
With the actual education you need.
With the system that works.
Your Two Choices Right Now
CHOICE 1: Keep doing what you’re doing
- Hope things magically improve
- Wonder if she’s faking it
- Feel incompetent and rejected
- Watch your marriage slowly die from sexual neglect
CHOICE 2: Get the training
- Learn the technique that works
- Master the 20-minute system
- Give your wife the orgasms she deserves
- Transform your marriage starting tonight
$27. 30-Day Guarantee. Instant Access.
[GET HER NEXT ORGASM AUDIOBOOK NOW]
Or you can keep fumbling in the dark.
Your marriage. Your choice.
Stop Pursuing Sex. Start Pursuing Her.
—Mel
Female Intimacy Coach
The Bedroom Strategy
Former “Cold Wife”
Creator of the Her Next Orgasm System
P.S. You’re not bad at oral sex. You’re untrained. There’s a massive difference between those two things. This audiobook is the training you should have gotten 20 years ago but never did. Get it now while it’s $27—price increases to $47 soon.
P.P.S. Every day you wait is another day she goes without the pleasure she deserves. Another day you feel incompetent. Another day your marriage loses ground. Why wait when the solution is this accessible?
P.P.P.S. Got questions? Email me: mel@thebedroomstrategy.com. I read every message and respond personally. You’re not alone in this struggle. Let me help.
RELATED ARTICLES YOU NEED TO READ:
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→ Why Can’t I Make My Wife Orgasm? The 7 Real Reasons
→ The #1 Mistake That Kills Her Orgasm (You’re Making It Right Now)
→ Free Download: The Oral Sex Technique Roadmap
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